In 2011

People need to stop telling me I'm hating on them.

Leave that shit in 2010, I'm tired of it. For ex. if you are a RAPPER & you release a song and I say the song is not good.. HOW does that make me a hater. I don't rap so it could be impossible that I'm hating on you... did you ever think that maybe that the song really isn't good.. Like stop it 5. Next time someone says something you don't want to hear instead of calling them a hater.. reflect on it & maybe you will see for yourself it could use some improvement

Babymother's need to leave the drama alone with men & focus on their child.

Honestly, Young mothers always talk about how much they will do for their child but most of them put themselves in situations that don't benefit them or their child. Wise up. If not for yourself.. for your child.

People need to stop bragging about what they have.

No one cares. Noone is hating. If you have it & someone cares.. they will acknowlegde it for what it really is. And this goes for the amount of money you are "getting".. your name brand clothes and all that nonsense.

Not everyone is a fashionista, a hipster or a trendsetter

Toronto. Stop It. Just cause you shop at a likkle H&M or put a whole much of random things together.. doesn't make you trendy.

Rapping. Modeling & Promoting..

are not the only things you can do in Toronto - Stop the nonsense

lol And I think I covered everything I feel should stop in 2011...If it applies then iunno.. switch up di ting & if it doesnt that keep doing you.. Yuh largee.

Happy Holidays.

Happy Holidays from the TDB family to yours. Enjoy Responsibly. We love ya'll.


Special shoutoutt to YFF. S&R.Co. TNV family.ROS. Steven Taylor. JimE Rush

Cliche.

A lasting relationship, not based on ownership
I trust every part of you, cause all that I... All that you say you do
You love me despite myself, sometimes I fight myself
I just can't believe that you, would have anything to do
With someone so insecure, someone so immature
Oh you inspire me, to be the higher me
You made my desire pure, you made my desire pure
Just tell me what to say, I can't find the words to say.

Peace Of Mind - Lauryn Hill

I don't care who you are, I don't care how much you deny this
& I don't care how cliche it sounds
everyone longs to feel such a love,
a love so unconditional that it makes you appreciate life
Male or Female.

Hair Care: Stretching & Winter Hair Care.

Winter is here and why not talk about about stretching and some tips to promote healthy hair?


For those of you that may be new to the hair care world or are just starting a new hair care journey of your own, "stretching" is a term used to describe prolonging the length of time between relaxers. For instance, if I usually relaxed my hair every 3 months, I may decide to stretch for 6 months instead. Benefits? Stretching decreases the chances of over-processing the already relaxed strands in your hair. We all know when you relax your hair you're supposed to only place the relaxer on the new growth. This can be difficult if the new growth is very small. However, when you stretch you are left with lots of new growth to relax and there is a clear distinction between the new growth and the relaxed hair. It is important to not over-process your hair (relax strands that have already been relaxed) because your hair can become extremely thin and damaged.

If you plan on stretching your hair, it's very important to take special care of your hair. The hair an become very fragile at the line of demarcation. The line of demarcation is the line that separates the new growth from the relaxed ends; where the two textures meet. To protect this line it is important to keep the new growth moisturized as well as the relaxed strands.
WINTER HAIR TIPS


My tips from my last winter hair care tips apply but hey I'll remind you!

1. Condition, condition, condition! Colder, dryer hair, means dryer strands. Protect your strands and increase your conditioning treatments. Make sure you're using moisturizing products like Nexxus Phyto Organics Humectin or Elasta QP DPR11 to name a few.

2. Moisturize and seal your strands at least once a day; for those who have drier strands, you can do this twice a day if you like.

3. Incorporate protective hairstyles into your life! Buns, curly dos, weaves, and braids are just a few protective hairstyle that will keep your ends hidden and off of your shoulders to prevent split ends.

4. For those that experience heavy dandruff during the winter months, hot oil treatments can be a remedy for this. Also simply oiling your scalp LIGHTLY can help. If you are consistently oiling your scalp make sure to wash your hair at least once a week to avoid build up.

Okay these are just a few tips for the winter. Hopefully they can help someone out.

Cheers.

Let's play the blame game...

I love you, more.

Things used to be, now they not
Anything but us is who we are
Disguising ourselves as secret lovers
We've become public enemies
We walk away like strangers in the street
Gone for eternity
We erased one another
So far from where we came
With so much of everything, how do we leave with nothing
Lack of visual empathy equates the meaning of L-O-V-E
Hatred and attitude tear us entirely

- Mr. West



Oh yeah motherfuckers - Yeeeezy Taught Me =)

Always Be My Baby ..

Love Still Hurts.

No matter how many times your heart has been broken.

The pain always brand feels new.

Whether it be by the same person, a new flame, an old flame.

Such a pain you never get use to.

& you think to yourself why do I keep putting myself in the same predicament..

you think to yourself is it cause you thought your heart could never ache again.

You think this time will be different.

this time the risk you are taking will be all worth it

until the tears surface & than you realize..

love still hurts.